In The Tao Teh Ching, Lao Tzu says, "I have three treasures; the first is to be kind." Are you kind? Perhaps the problem is not that you are not kind, the problem is that you need to guard yourself from people who might treat you unkindly. However, there is the subtle law that rights all wrongs. You can only live your own life honestly and let people be aware by seeing the mirror of their ugliness. You do not need to attack people or correct them by attacking; that only brings more difficulty.
— Hua-Ching Ni, Entering the Tao