There is a Buddhist saying: "Give up poisonous food wherever it is offered you." Once we know what is poison and what is nourishing in our relationships, once we learn the laws of love and how to practice them, we will be able to live a life of love and build relationships that cannot fail. Zen shows us how we can turn our lives around at any time.

Brenda Shoshanna, Zen and the Art of Falling in Love