Disappointment always contains a powerful and accurate message that can be trusted: We have placed our longing where it doesn't really belong. If we can hear what our disillusionment is trying to tell us, it brings us down to earth and helps us recognize the truth of what is. Such moments of recognition provide major opportunities for growing up, for moving forward in our development. Seen in this light, disappointment is an important stepping-stone on the path of conscious relationship.
— John Welwood, Love and Awakening