Arrange things in your daily life so that you have time to water your positive seeds. Ask your loved ones to practice in the same way. Say, "Darling, if you really care for me, please water the good seeds in me every day. I am capable of loving, understanding, and forgiving and I need your help to practice these in my daily life. I promise to recognize the positive seeds in you, as well, and to do my best to water them every day." This is true love.

Thich Nhat Hanh in The Path of Emancipation