This book presents a new relationship model which balances autonomy with intimacy. In a resonant relationship, power is shared, anger not hostility is expressed, and couples are in sync with each other. This kind of union overcomes some of the problems inherent in both "merged" and "exchange" relationships. Fishman also discusses the challenges couples face as they deal with issues of power and control, gender, money, sex, and interactive rhythm.
Resonance The New Chemistry of Love
A new relationship model for the 90s which balances autonomy with intimacy.