Are you the person making other people feel they have difficulty to talk to you? Are you the person who makes others feel uncomfortable? Are you the person who makes waves all the time? Are you the person who makes others feel nauseous? Are you the person who makes people not want to see you anymore? You need to brighten your dark spots if you have any. No matter where you are, always be with your Heavenly energy manifesting as love, care, help, friendliness, or at least be at peace.
— Hua-Ching Ni, Entering the Tao