Life is a ritual. It is full of mysteries and codes. The role of the grandparents is to reintroduce the baby to the myths, symbols, and mysteries of the world by keeping the baby's awareness alive through continual bonding. The relationship of the grandparent to the child, along with that of the community, helps diminish the trauma of growing up and keeps the child's gifts alive.
— Sobonfu E. Some, Welcoming Spirit Home