Divine detachment is when the lower self steps away from the drama it has created and allows the higher self to observe and comment upon it, clearly and without emotion; honestly and without hesitation; completely and without reservation. You will know when this process is working for you because there will be no negativity, no judgment, no anger, no shame, no guilt, no fear, no recrimination or sense of being made wrong — just a simple statement of what is so. And that statement may be very illuminating.

Neale Donald Walsch, Spiritual Divorce by Debbie Ford