When you understand the profound design of the Universe, you can see that you contain everything you see in others. Then in an instant your entire world will alter. You will discover how all that you see and conceive is a reflection of your inner world. You understand why you can love someone one minute and hate him or her the next. You know why other people can say or do things that push your buttons and why these buttons are so charged with emotion.
— Debbie Ford, Spiritual Divorce