Spirituality means a whole lot more than merely speaking in softer tones. Judgment can whisper, and it's still a judgment. Our spiritual task is to surrender the thought that we have the right, in any situation, to judge whom God would never judge, or to condemn whom God would never condemn. And that means everyone. God's perception is that each and every one of us is His beloved child in whom He is well pleased. And it is in learning to think as God thinks that we find mastery in life and love.
— Marianne Williamson, Everyday Grace