Centering: I will create a warm, loving home life and place my marriage at its center.
Choosing: I will cultivate the discipline of choosing wisely.
Honoring: I will have reverence for my partner and myself.
Caring: I will be a source of loving care for my partner, setting my heart upon what matters most.
Abiding: I will have faith, patiently persisting through life's many changes.
Repairing: I will work to mend what is broken in my partner and myself.
Listening: I will stay open to new insight, however unlikely the source.
Celebrating: I will celebrate spiritual values with my partner and others.

Lois Kellerman, Nelly Bly, Marriage from the Heart