A Hasidic master, the Ba'al Shem Tov, used to say, "Man was given two eyes, so that with one, he should see his own faults, and with the other, he should see the virtues of others." Unfortunately, our generation has reversed the order. We see our own virtues and the faults of others. So of course we feel dissatisfied, of course we feel victimized.
— Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, The Committed Marriage