"How do you foster forgiveness?" I asked.

"First, according to my own experience, I think of others, including my so-called enemies. These people also human beings. They also have the same right to achieve happiness and avoid suffering. Freshness, smiles, everybody likes. Crime, bloodshed, nobody likes. Then second. My future related with them; my interest related with their interest. . . . Taking care of them is ultimately taking care of ourselves."

Victor Chan, The Wisdom of Forgiveness