If I look at my judgments of you and simply lay them aside as the work of the ego, which I do not have to obey — then I am contributing to the work of peace on earth. And only if I am willing to give up my own judgments do I have the right to call myself a peace-maker. This is much harder than traditional peace activism because it means we're seeking the deepest change within ourselves.

Marianne Williamson, The Gift of Change