It is very important for us to realize that love, to be true, has to hurt. I must be willing to give what ever it takes not to harm other people and, in fact, to do good to them. This requires that I be willing to give until it hurts. Otherwise there is no true love in me and I bring injustice, not peace, to those around me.

Mother Teresa , The Joy in Loving by Jaya Chaliha, Edward Le Joly