To prevent questions from weighing us down, we must raise them. The longer we wait, the heavier they get, like a thatched roof in the rain. People who are afraid of raising questions run the risk of getting crushed under them. When we raise a question all the way, we find that the answer to every "Why?" is "Yes!" This sets us free.

David Steindl-Rast, Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer