Why do we sit shivah for seven days? Because the world was made in seven days and each person is a world, a world that never was before and that will never be again. If death is not something to be marked for a week because it is so awesome an event, if death is nothing, if death is cheap, then life is cheap. So the tradition says: Stop whatever you are doing and take notice, mourn, work it out, talk it out, for seven days. No more and no less.

Jack Riemer, Wrestling with the Angel by Jack Riemer, editor