"I believe that I will gradually or maybe even through some sudden and undeserved breakthrough be brought to an experiential realization that it is not I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me, the Christ who prayed that all be one as he and the Father are one (Jn 17:21), the Christ in whom all things hold together, and in whom all the fullness was pleased to dwell (Col 1:17, 18). As this truth moves from my lips and mind down into the depths of my heart, purifying it from the need to set itself over and above what it still thinks is outside itself, I believe my heart, my true self, will be set free from its compulsion to judge, be set free for love. At that point, I believe, I will be able to realize that the reason Jesus tells us not to judge sabakuna is ultimately because there is no one and nothing out there to judge. In him we live and move and have our being (Acts 17:28). In him, who is divine love incarnate, we are all one."
Purity of Heart and Contemplation A Monastic Dialogue Between Christian and Asian Traditions
William Skudlarek on love as an antidote to judging people, because there's only One(book edited by Bruno Barnhart and Joseph Wong)