Remember — what hurts you, hurts others too. What irritates you, irritates others too. . . . No one likes to be talked about behind her back. No one likes to be ignored when he says hello, or to be talked down to, or to be interrupted. . .  Everybody is hurt by rudeness, irritated by an angry word, agitated by being rushed or pressured.

Eknath Easwaran, The Bhagavad Gita for Daily Living, Volume 2