There are two ways of looking at every situation. You can see light or darkness, blessing or curse. You can see the world with a good eye or a bad eye. Depending on which eye you choose, you can become either considerate or bitter, patient or angry, giving or niggardly, content or miserable, warm or cantankerous, loving or critical — it's all contingent upon how you train your eye. And that is the legacy that you leave behind. That is your eulogy.

Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, The Committed Marriage