The dervishes are expected to treat each other as brothers and sisters — to open their homes, their hearts, and their purses to each other. At the level of truth (haqiqa), there is "no mine and no yours." Advanced Sufis realize that all things come from God, that they are really only caretakers, and that they possess nothing. Those who realize truth have gone beyond attachment to possessions and externals in general, including fame and position. . . . there is "no me and no you." The individual realizes that all is God, that nothing and no one is separate from God. This is the ultimate goal of Sufism.
— Robert Frager, Heart, Self, and Soul