How did the families in Lauri and Cari's neighborhood raise their children to be allies? Lauri and Cari asked their neighbors for tips on raising kind kids. This is what the parents told them:
BE A GOOD FRIEND
When bad things happen, say, "These are our friends and they are hurting. They deserve to be happy. How can we make them feel better?"
DON'T TEACH HATE
Kids don't see any difference between same-sex and opposite-sex marriage. If you don't teach them differently, they remain open and welcoming of all families.
TAKE ACTION
Hurt feelings can fester. If a bully says something hurtful to someone in your presence, don't be a bystander — be an upstander and speak up. If a bully does something hurtful, like the person who egged the house and took away the rainbow flag, take quick action to show your friends that you love and support them.
RALLY OTHERS, BUT DON'T FORCE THEM
There is strength in numbers, but don't judge those who don't join you in taking action. Celebrate and focus on those who are willing to spread love and kindness.
