If it is true that solitude diverts us from our fear and anger and makes us empty for a relationship with God, then it is also true that our emptiness provides a very large and sacred space where we can welcome the people of the world. There is a powerful connection between our emptiness and our ability to welcome. When we give up what sets us apart from others — not just property but also opinions, prejudices, judgments, and mental preoccupations — then we have room within to welcome friends as well as enemies.
— Henri J. M. Nouwen, Clowning in Rome